Tis the season of Christmas kindness. A few years ago I embarked on 24 days of Random Acts of Christmas kindness–a deliberate act of kindness for the first 24 days of December. Or you can always be on the lookout to help someone like the following story:
My daughter and I were shopping at our local Shopko store buying needed baby supplies. We finished shopping and in the process of leaving the parking lot in our car when my daughter said to me, “Ohhh, that lady needs some help.” I looked up immediately and saw an elderly woman walking in the parking lot towards us. She was stooped down carrying two large plastic shopping bags. The parking lot had about 3 inches of soft, slushy snow, the result of a recent snowfall. I told my daughter to stop so I could hop out of the car and help her. I walked over to her and our conversation went something like this:
Me: “Ma’am, can I help you with your bags?”
Appearing a little taken aback and almost a little embarrassed, she said “Yes”.
Me: I took one of the bags and held her arm as she walked over to her car.
As we were walking, she said, “I was trying to be careful so I wouldn’t fall.”
I replied, “Yes, it did snow quite a bit.” I opened her car’s back seat and put the shopping bag I carried for her.
She smiled up at me and kindly said, “I hope you have a Merry Christmas.”
I smiled and replied, “Yes and I hope you have a Merry Christmas and you have a good day!”
She said, “I will. It is a little better now. Thank You.”
I then helped her into the front seat and shut her door.
I immediately hopped back into our car and we drove off. Choking back tears, I recounted our conversation with my daughter. I have to admit, this was a wonderful “Random Act of Christmas Kindness.” Spontaneous, not planned. It didn’t cost money and she wasn’t expecting it. She was kind, grateful and a heartwarming experience where we both have the memory.
I would love to share some of my Random Acts of Christmas kindness ideas. Challenge yourself to purposely share your kindness.
“Random Act of Christmas Kindness” is all about people who provide us service that we sometimes take for granted. Put together a coffee mug with Christmas goodies and put it in your mailbox before the mail arrives on Christmas Eve.
Pay for someone’s restaurant meal
“Random Act of Christmas Kindness” involved picking up the tab of another restaurant patron. Randomly choose another person’s meal tab to pay.
Prepare a meal
Prepare a meal for someone. Do you know a young mom, who is very busy and stressed out? The perfect recipient for a home-cooked meal.
Grocery store gift card
Give a grocery gift certificate. I decided to tape a grocery gift card to a grocery shopping cart. I taped it to the part where you would sit a young child near the front of the cart. After the card was taped, I returned the cart to the cart corral area. Another idea is to purchase a grocery store gift card and give it to the person behind you in line. Both great ideas!
There are just some images that shout “Christmas”. One of those images is bright red poinsettias. What a better place to deliver poinsettias than to nursing homes? As hard as a person tries, nursing homes just have that institutional feel about them. Giving the residents something to look at that is beautiful and “Christmasy” is my act of kindness for today.
Deliver beautiful poinsettia plants. Ask them to put into someone’s room who may not normally receive a Christmas gift.
Put a “goody bag” together and secretly give them to some of our senior citizens. You can have a lot of fun with this. Involve your children or grandchildren.
Too many people are food insecure or don’t have enough food for their families. And no one should go hungry, especially during the holiday season. I feel we can all give a little to help those that need it.
An unsuspecting motorist can use to help their pay gas bill. Filling a gas tank can cost a lot of money these days, so I am sure any kind of help is appreciated!
Donate a bag of dog food to the local Humane Society. I have stated many times for people to donate to their local humane society and not the Humane Society of the United States. HSUS is NOT your local humane society, but rather pushes a vegan, anti-livestock agenda. Your local humane societies are about the dogs and cats that need a good home.
Give a free car wash!
Fast Food Drive Thru
Pay for the order of the car behind me in the drive-thru. An unsuspecting person will receive a free meal. When I told the cashier that I wanted to pay for the car behind me, she was not surprised. My guess is they have other customers that do the same thing.
Salvation Army Bell Ringers
Give Salvation Army Bell Ringers a gift card and tell them thank-you. Maybe a Starbucks or Caribou gift card?
Christmas or not, laundry still needs to be done. Tape money to a washer and/or dryer in a laundromat.
Salvation Army has a “Christmas Angel” program where you can select a child or children to buy presents.
Just a nice gesture, nothing more and nothing less. Leaving behind enough money to buy a bottle of soda! Hope someone enjoys and passes along a “random act of kindness” to someone else!
Insert five $1 bills, each taped to a Random Act of Christmas Kindness card, in five random books at the library. Four out of the five books have a Christmas theme.
The hardest part was putting the dollar bills in the books discreetly. I had to be sneaky and probably looked guilty because I was looking around to make sure no one was watching. Anonymity is imperative!
Will they pay it forward by showing someone kindness?
Go Christmas caroling!. Visit a local church member’s home or nursing homes. It was very neat to see the residents join in with the singing. Appreciation and joy were shown all over their faces.
These are just. a few things everyone can do to put a smile on other people’s faces. And if you are the recipient, please pay it forward.